Power struggles, frustration, miscommunication, overwhelm, exhaustion -sometimes there are angry words and things aren’t very peaceful in my home. My children are very strong willed and often voice their resentment of the structure and rules that come with being a family. They want food, clothes and shelter with no chores. They want to govern themselves and just have fun. My “work before play” request is sometimes a hard pill to swallow. Patterns are learned and formed at a v